"See how great a love the Father has lavished on us,
that we should be called children of God."
I John 3:1
How should we measure our worth? How do we measure our worth? Unfortunately, the answer to those two questions isn't always the same.
Have you ever measured your worth by your problems or by your performance? I have. And then I have to remind myself that it's not an accurate measure.
My worth will never be accurately measured by my problems or by my performance. Nor am I accurately assessed by the reviews I receive from others, whether face-to-face or Facebook likes.
The only accurate measure of my worth is based on who I am in Christ. Jesus sees the real me, the real you, yet was willing to die to redeem us. Every single one of the flaws I wish to hide from others are known to Him, and still He loves me. Still He died to redeem me. Still He calls me His friend. Greater still, He invites me into His family. He chooses to make His home in me. He chooses to include me in His plans for His kingdom and for His world.
This truth matters every moment of every day. It affects how I treat others in every way. If I am insecure in my own feeling of worth, I cannot be free to love others without being distracted by my own needs for affirmation. All of life can descend to being about propping me up.
The truth is, though, that my worth does not depend on my surrounding, my challenges, my family or friends, my failures, or my successes.
"God demonstrates His own love toward us,
in that while we were yet sinners,
Christ died for us."
Romans 5:8
When I realize I am loved that much, by the One who matters most, I am set free to love, and not just to love from my own limited storehouse, but to love as a pipeline of God's love, forever connected to His unquenchable supply.
"Therefore having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom also we have obtained our introduction by faith into this grace in which we stand; and we exult in hope of the glory of God."
[Yes, but what about when life is hard? What then?]
"And not only this, but we also exult in our tribulatons, knowing that tribulation brings about perseverance; and perseverance, proven character; and proven character, hope; and hope does not disappoint… [Why?] ...because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts through the Holy spirit who was given to us." Romans 5:1-5
Feeling, (no, not just feeling), KNOWING I am loved,
Carol
P.S. Why don't you go love somebody who needs to hear this!
